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Give it up for the big O, and I don't mean Oprah. Achieving an orgasm is like winning first prize. It is a goal most of us plan to achieve when we are having sex with our partners. The following are positions that will give you an orgasm to remember. Just as a side note, if you do not have an orgasm during sex, there is nothing wrong with you. You will not have an orgasm every time, so just enjoy and have fun.

Lotus Style - This tantric position is very similar to the good old missionary position, except it requires eye contact and body-to-body contact. Simply sit your lover down with his legs crossed. As you face him, straddle his legs and seductively lower yourself on his lap. Hold on girl, no penetration just yet. Slow your roll and wrap your legs around the side of his torso, so they're hugging his sexy bottom. Now it's all good, so hold each other's arms as he enters you. Rock steady back and forth together, increase your speed as you come closer to climaxing.

Lap Dance - Give a good lap dance and your partner will thank you for weeks, but if that lap dance takes a turn into hot passionate loving you will be crowned a true Queen. Wear your sexiest lingerie and play some seductive tunes. Use a tall-backed padded chair and then straddle him as you lean back. Tease and play as you slowly begin to extend your legs, one at a time, until your ankles are resting on his shoulders. Proceed with intercourse. You go girl!

Gone Fishin' - This move is one of a woman's favorites when done correctly. This position can curl the toes like no other. When your lover goes down on you and spends quality time on your vagina, it is a very intimate process. Make sure that you are communicating with your partner when something that they are doing is totally doing it for you. Also, guide him in the direction that you want him to go so that he gets you off just the way you like it.

Unison - This is great for a simultaneous orgasm. The key to this position is slowing down and enjoying each other. Take the time to kiss and caress each other during intercourse. Have him sit down in a low chair with his legs relaxed. Facing your man, then straddle him with your feet on the floor. Slowly lower yourself onto his penis. Slowly let just the tip of his penis enter you, and then lower yourself inch by inch until you're allowing him full entry.

Shower Power - They don't show sexy shower scenes in movies for nothing. Shower sex is one fine time. The water can actually bring extra power to the man's thrust. Stand directly under the showerhead, make sure the water is running, and you are standing where it hits the point of entry. Now lean forward, keeping your back straight and your hands on your thighs. Your partner should stand behind you, holding your waist as he enters you.

Butterfly - This is one sensual and sexy position. Everything has to be aligned between you and your partner. A great place for this is where you are the one lying down, and he can stand in front of you. Think kitchen table, counter, desk, or just use your imagination. You have to be able to lift your legs and rest them on his shoulders. Tilt yourself upward so that your pelvis is angled up toward him, and your crotches meet and greet in a delightful way.

Charming Courtesan Tip: Flirt a few times a day!

Flirting is good for your soul and your swagger. It is not only fun, but it makes you feel sassy. It is a fabulous way to let out your feminine power. It is also a wonderful way to practice the art of seduction. Make sure you make eye contact with that sexy person walking your way. Give them a wink and a smile, you never know what it could lead to! It is all in name of flirty foreplay.

If you haven't added food to your foreplay, it is about time that you do. Food and sex work beautifully together, so cook something up in the boudoir.

Use finger food aphrodisiacs like chocolate, bananas, or strawberries to feed your lover or have him/her feed you. Use chocolate, vanilla, or whipped cream (or whatever flavor you desire) to eat off of each other. Don't forget to also include syrups in the mix. There is an array of aphrodisiacs that are mood enchancers so be creative.

Bringing food into the bedroom can add a whole new erotic and playful experience to your pleasure and play.

This is a cocktail that is perfect for French Fridays or any night of the week.

I am a huge fan of Lillet, it is very French. Lillet is a mix of all types of fun in a glass: a blend of 85% Bordeaux wines (Sauvignon Blanc, Semillon and Muscadelle for the Blanc; Merlot and Cabernet Sauvignon for the Rouge) and 15% macerated liqueurs, mostly citrus liqueurs from the peels of sweet oranges from Spain and Morocco and the peels of bitter green oranges from Haiti. Can you say yum!

Imagine the Lillet with champagne. This is on hell of an aphrodisiac. L’chaim honey!

Lillet Champagne Cocktail

In a chilled champagne glass combine 1/2 cup Lillet with about 3-4 ice cubes.

Fill the glass with chilled Champagne.

Garnish the drink with a twist of untreated orange peel.

Makes one luscious cocktail, sit back and enjoy. Double it if you want to make a drink for your lover.

The courtesan that cooks knows that a slammin’ side dish is a key ingredient to making a fabulous and luscious meal.

Whipping up a side of garlic mashed potatoes is always a great way to go. Are you surprised that potatoes are considered an aphrodisiac? Back in the days of Shakespeare, the potato was known as the “apple of love”. Then there is garlic that has always been thought of as a potent aphrodisiac that ignites a person’s passion. I can vouch for that, since I am a huge fan of cooking with garlic!

Next time you need to make a simple sexy side dish, go for the garlic mashed potatoes.

GARLIC MASHED POTATOES

Ingredients:

1 medium head of  garlic

1  tablespoon of olive oil

2 pounds russet potatoes, peeled and quartered

4 tablespoons butter, softened

1/2 cup of milk

Sea salt and pepper to taste

DIRECTIONS:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).

Drizzle garlic with olive oil, then wrap in aluminum foil. Bake the garlic in a preheated oven for 1 hour. Smell the aroma!

Bring a large pot of sea salted water to a boil. Add potatoes, and cook until tender, about 15 minutes. Drain, cool and chop. Stir in butter, milk, salt and pepper.

Remove the garlic from the oven, and cut in half. Squeeze the softened cloves into the potatoes. Blend potatoes with an electric mixer until desired consistency is achieved. Serve up and savor the flavor.

Shout out to the single ladies, pull up a glass of wine, let's keep it real.

Dating can be hit or miss depending on how you look at it. As you are partaking in the dating game, have to remember to keep your head up and heart open. There are three little things to keep in mind that can make dating a whole new experience for you.

1 Stay focused. Make sure you clear about what you want when you are dating, so that you work toward what your heart desires. Are you looking to just have a good time or is your goal to find a life partner to settle down with. When you remember your dating goal you know which dates you should or shouldn’t go on.

2 Have fun. Sometimes dating is frustrating, especially when you go on a few back to back dates that do now work out. To get to the love of your life, remember that you will have to kiss a few frogs. Start going dates not expecting that it is “the one”.  Go out to meet new people and to stay open to opportunities in love. That way if it doesn’t turn out the way that you want you will not be disappointed. Instead you will have a fun dating stories to tell your girlfriends. You have to be in it to win it.

3. Stay calm. waiting for your date to call. If you go on a date and you have a fabulous time, do not drive yourself crazy wondering when he is going to call you for date number two. Stop waiting by the phone or spending every minute thinking that he is never going to call you. The call may come or not come. What is important to remember is that you can’t hurry love; learn to go with the flow.

Add some sex appeal to your Spring by having a food porn picnic!

The weather is going to be nice even to grab your picnic basket and spend some quality time outside. Get some delicious aphrodisiacs or use recipes that you love from this blog. Then sit back and relax as you savor every bite.

Why not whip up a food porn picnic for you and your boo so that your food can intersect with sex?It adds a delicious touch to foreplay.

If you are single, have a food porn picnic with friends. Not only will you have good sexy eats, but you may learn something new about your friends.

The main thing is to have have food that your love and to make sure you take the time to enjoy it. Whatever food gives you an orgasmic experience is your food porn. May you say "OMG" multiple times!

There is something rather seductive about a deviled egg. Maybe the term “devil” just makes them a little naughty. I have a deviled egg recipe for you that is different and not the traditional way to make deviled eggs. One thing is for certain, they turn out delish! There are a few aphrodisiacs in the recipe including eggs, salmon, and tomatoes.

Eggs are a sign of fertility and new life. Tomatoes are known as the “love apple” red, juicy and scandalous. As for salmon, it is a great source of protein, making it great for your stamina. It also has omega 3′s, proven to elevate serotonin levels in the brain which enhances your sex mood.

A yummy recipe with great natural aphrodisiacs is a winning combination.

Smoked Salmon Deviled Eggs

Ingredients:

12 eggs

10 cherry tomatoes, halved and seeded

4 ounces cream cheese, softened

1 (6 ounce) can skinless, boneless salmon, drained and flaked

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons spicy brown mustard

1 1/2 tablespoons sour cream

1 tablespoon lemon juice

1/4 teaspoon grated lemon peel, or to taste

1 teaspoon smoked paprika

Sea salt and pepper to taste

smoked paprika for garnish

Doin’ It:

Place the eggs into a saucepan in a single layer and fill with water to cover the eggs by 1 inch. Cover the saucepan and bring the water to a boil over high heat. Remove from the heat and let the eggs stand in the hot water for 15 minutes. Drain. Cool the eggs under cold running water. Peel once cold. Halve the eggs lengthwise and scoop the yolks into a bowl. Mash the yolks with a fork.

Place the tomatoes, cut sides down, onto a paper towel to drain.

Mash the cream cheese with a spoon in a bowl until smooth and workable; stir in the egg yolks, salmon, mayonnaise, brown mustard, sour cream, lemon juice, lemon peel, and 1 teaspoon of smoked paprika until well combined. Season with sea salt and pepper.

Spoon the salmon mixture into the egg halves and cherry tomato halves. Sprinkle with additional smoked paprika for garnish and arrange on a platter. Chill at least 1 hour before serving.

Oh, yes stumbled upon one of the sexiest recipes ever that is one a modern courtesan should have in her arsenal. This recipe is a classic one from the swanky, Thom Bar in NYC, one of my favorite spots which is luscious life approved.

What makes this drink exotic and erotic is the rooibos tea and rose petal esscence. How can you go wrong with this combination? Sensual and best of all good for you.

Make this for when you are ready to seduce the pants (or skirt) off someone.  Go get 'em!

Rose Petal Lychee Bellini

Ingredients:

1.5 oz lychee puree
1.5 oz rooibos tea
2 drops of rose petal esscence
3 oz of Heidsieck champagne

Doin' It:
Brew a 10 oz pot of rooibos tea for about 4 minutes Allow the tea to cool for about 10-15 minutes. Once they tea has cooled add 1.5 oz to a mixing glass. Add 2 drops of rose petal essence. Add 1.5 oz of lychee puree. Gently stir the ingredients and add to a champagne flute. Top off with 3 oz of champagne or dry sparkling wine. Garnish with a single rose petal or orchid.

I have a quick sexy aphrodisiac recipe for you that you can whip in a matter of minutes! This cream spread has two sexy aphrodisiacs, the orange and honey. Yes, it is as good a it sounds.

Oranges are thought to increase sexual desire, also due to the juice and shape it is known for being arousing. And honey in known for being the nectar of Aphrodite. There are some cultures that offer honey to the bridegroom. Did you know that Attila the hun, drank himself to death on honey?

This delish spread will go great on bread, muffins, croissants, bagels, or any thing your heart desires. Remember always eat sexy!

Ingredients:

• 1 8-oz package cream cheese
• 1/4 cup honey
• 2 tablespoons orange juice
• 1/2 teaspoon grated orange peel

Combine all ingredients and blend well. Now enjoy, you can also chill overnight to have the flavors blend even more!